tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post7201461171648732066..comments2023-08-23T13:07:14.633+02:00Comments on Samba meets Sambar: Would you marry again?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-73127044763500099742015-05-21T12:02:48.039+02:002015-05-21T12:02:48.039+02:00I am about 3 years late to this post! but i'm ...I am about 3 years late to this post! but i'm an Indian girl going to marry a Brazilian guy! we live in india now but should eventually be moving to brazil in a few years... I have only been once for 3 weeks to meet his family.. They are lovely! Wish me luck! hahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-42893222090167893442012-12-15T03:18:29.155+01:002012-12-15T03:18:29.155+01:00Well, sorry for my sincerity but by his reaction s...Well, sorry for my sincerity but by his reaction sounds like he is sorry for marry u and also would not do again if he had the chance. My congrats tht u guys are together but if were me in ur place i would be very upset with his reaction, anyways each couple knows wht happen inside the four walls and how to do to manage tht. I just wish u guys best of luck and i hope ur husband dnt take his disappointments in a way to discourage other couples only because of their cultural differences. You guys might know tht is not easy but never impossible if hv patience, love and good intention with the relationship. Anyways to be alive is also not easy and we keep on trying... same way relationships are not easy not even between ppl with same nationality =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-80153691435092295632012-07-05T09:02:33.710+02:002012-07-05T09:02:33.710+02:00Olá, meu nome é Paula e tenho um namorado indiano....Olá, meu nome é Paula e tenho um namorado indiano. Estamos pensando o que fazer, e ele vem em julho para pesquisar sobre possibilidades de trabalho aqui no Brasil. Você teria algum email ou telefone para que eu pudesse entrar em contato? De repente voce poderia passar algumas informacoes para nós? Meu email para contato é paulaelisars@yahoo.com.br Muito grata PaulaPaula Elisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10688497570103804035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-87756603552198770562011-11-02T19:58:10.600+01:002011-11-02T19:58:10.600+01:00great post!great post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-91872448138998055472011-11-01T05:24:12.116+01:002011-11-01T05:24:12.116+01:00@A4: Your comment makes sense but is meaningless f...@A4: Your comment makes sense but is meaningless for the most part. The guy is already in the girl's country. Presumably he is comfortable enough with the country's culture enough to date the girl. So of course no one asks is the guy fits in with the girl's culture since he clearly does (he's living/working in her country and managing fine).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-68685498119172976902011-10-31T20:38:42.970+01:002011-10-31T20:38:42.970+01:00Hi A4!
Thanks for your comment. I'm sure A....Hi A4!<br />Thanks for your comment. I'm sure A.'s comments would apply if a girl had asked about a guy. Here I have not met a single Indian girl though... most Indian women seem to come with their husbands. And if a girl was in India dating an Indian but not intending to stay there for the rest of her life I think it applies just as well.Sambahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07120077413896397663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-41946593498084395122011-10-31T19:37:42.397+01:002011-10-31T19:37:42.397+01:00Um, I assume (and rather hope) your husband's ...Um, I assume (and rather hope) your husband's comments of not marrying a foreigner because they haven't travelled etc or been to India would apply if a girl had asked him about her man (who hadn't left India but they had left to live in a third country?).To what extent does the guy fit with the girl's culture? It seems that a lot of the time it's about girls going to India and adjusting and perhaps not the other way round. Not having a go - I guess just trying to put it from another point of view.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-74981347296363668832011-10-30T14:12:00.144+01:002011-10-30T14:12:00.144+01:00Houstonian,
I do feel the last part of your commen...Houstonian,<br />I do feel the last part of your comment is quite offensive. I just hope the girls your find are not innocent in that regard.<br /><br />And A3,<br />I wasn't giving advice, I was just giving my opinion and did not intend to make it sound like advice.Sambahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07120077413896397663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-8701096322420515242011-10-30T02:45:42.476+02:002011-10-30T02:45:42.476+02:00No offense I don't think its your place to giv...No offense I don't think its your place to give advice when your relationship is very similar. I understand that she hasn't traveled much abroad.But who are you to judge when you were once in that same situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-77999918462718763462011-10-29T20:14:16.844+02:002011-10-29T20:14:16.844+02:00Samba and the two anonymouses...fantastic post and...Samba and the two anonymouses...fantastic post and comments. <br /><br />Anonymous 2...I agree with anonymous 1. I'm an Indian guy in the US..and I agree that its just easier to marry Indian, than deal with all sorts of cultural differences in a marriage. I mean, 25 years on, a marriage is less romance and roses and more business, what kids need to do, etc. <br /><br />Its easier to marry in a culture than outside it. So, as a desi male, even I prefer desi's to marry. <br /><br />and yes, I openly and shamelessly enjoy the free sexuality that is present in the west, while expecting my woman to be an innocent girl.houstoniannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-74793529289167541372011-10-29T12:51:04.360+02:002011-10-29T12:51:04.360+02:00Hi Anonymous 1 and 2,
Thanks for your comments. I ...Hi Anonymous 1 and 2,<br />Thanks for your comments. I do agree with A1 that where you grow up plays a big role on who you turn out to be, but I also agree with A2 that one is definitely not better than the other, just different.<br />Thanks for your comments guys!Sambahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07120077413896397663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-50413608241850627992011-10-29T07:01:19.103+02:002011-10-29T07:01:19.103+02:00@Anonymous, I didn't mean to offend anyone. Al...@Anonymous, I didn't mean to offend anyone. All I wanted to say is that there are differences between people of different cultures. I'm not saying one is better than the other.<br />@Samba: Great blog and great post. Sorry if my comments were provocative.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-77011970834533657382011-10-29T04:11:46.986+02:002011-10-29T04:11:46.986+02:00@anonymous:
What is truly "Indian"? As a...@anonymous:<br />What is truly "Indian"? As an Indian-American girl who has grown up in America, your opinion is a typical discriminatory remark. It is fine to have your own opinion with (i) but with (ii) don't make generalized assumptions. How would you know how an Indian American person is raised because you were not raised in an Indian American Household? This is not to start an argument on Samba's blog but I feel that people who come from India to work here always have their own preconceived notions about us and it is generally negative. In fact, the culture in India has really changed and I feel sometimes we are more "Indian" than the girls that come from India and marry people like you. Nice blog Samba!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8811305918135820763.post-67317712217403867682011-10-29T02:26:04.144+02:002011-10-29T02:26:04.144+02:00For some reason, I really like this post. Probably...For some reason, I really like this post. Probably the best one on this blog so far. A's insight was brilliant. As a male Indian professional in America, I will not even marry an Indian-American girl who grew up in America since (i) compatability issues and (ii) despite what she thinks, she's only really experienced America and is definitely not Indian.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com